Kinky Girlfriend
Are you turned on by BDSM or kink, but are not sure where to start?
Is there a kink you’ve wanted to try, but the idea of seeing a traditional Mistress is a bit scary?
Would you like to start slow, and try a little power exchange, without committing to a full ‘scene’?
Do you have a fantasy you’d like to discuss in a peer based way, where you can experiment playfully, without taking it all too seriously?
Do you want a mostly ‘vanilla’ type partner, but with the flexibility that allows some kinky twists?
If you’ve answered yes to any of these questions, you might enjoy having a Kinky Girlfriend.
Here’s some ideas for intro level ‘kink’:
Blindfolded with my stockings
For some extra excitement in plain hot sex.
Tying wrists with a scarf
Easy to get out of.
Light Spanking
Find out how erotic this play can be and maybe you’ll choose to take this particular interest further…
Sensation Play - with a bindfold
when you take away a sense (sight, touch, smell, hearing, taste) all the other senses are heightened….
Here, when we take away sight, we’re expecting an increase in your perception of touch. This can be taken further by blocking your ears, or increasing the level of restraint – taking away your ability to touch. You can see where I’m going with this?!
Under the bed restraints
A step beyond tying the wrists… you could find yourself spread eagle on the bed with your wrists and ankle held in my comfy, leather restraints.
Clothes pegs...
Not scary – but surprisingly fun! Clipped to skin they range from ‘barely registering’ to ‘quite intense’. A great way to try surrender and sensation in an easy-to-digest way.
Floggers
They look kinda scary and BDSM-y, but…floggers can be surprisingly soft and sensual and applied to impart very little sting or thud. They’re a great way introduce a little power play as you ‘assume the position’.
Beginners wax play...
Starting with an oily massage that will relax you…
I can then drip some wax onto your body. The oil not only protects the skin from the heat of the wax, but it’s easy to take off and continue to other stimulation.
Hair pulling
I little tug on your pubes or your head to remind you who’s in charge…
This is your hair, not mine. Until we have known each other for a number of sessions I do not ‘switch’.
